I am not hiding my face behind my face when I say this: “I’m a lover girl in her 30s.”

I used to feel like I had to tone that part of me down. I felt that being soft, romantic, or openly desiring love made me seem naïve after all the heartbreak I have encountered. Society often tells us to be cautious, guarded and remain with a plan while strategizing. 

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As the year winds down and the reflection of Christmas lights bounces from the ornaments on my tree, I can’t help but reflect on how this year unfolded. It began with me feeling conflicted and depressed. I will explain a little more. I had anxiety about going into year 31.

The holiday season is known as a time for gratefulness, love, and joy, but let’s keep it real: Your glow-up doesn’t always get a round of applause. Sometimes, the more happiness and calmness you display, the more it angers those who watch you. This isn’t your problem. It’s theirs. But let’s unpack why your self-confidence, especially during the holidays, might cause some people to become hot-headed and bothered by your character.

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