There is a special kind of fear in waking up and realizing your life does not fit you anymore. Your mind has moved on. Your standards have gotten higher. The thing you used to tolerate now gets on your last damn nerve. You want better, however wanting better and being able to pay for better are two different things. That gap right there? Spookier than any ghost or goblin I have ever seen.

A lot of people do not like to talk about how expensive it is to become the woman you have always wanted to be. I am not just talking about money. I am talking about the relationships that slowly disappear. The relationships that stop making sense. 

Living in the hood while trying to build a better life for yourself and your children can feel as if you are carrying hope and pressure at the same time. Moving forward is not as simple as deciding to leave. There is nothing wrong with coming from a low-income neighborhood.

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What's scarier than Halloween? A man spinning the block just to have sex with a woman he used to deal with! BABY, THAT'S SPOOKY ASF! It is always a good time to look at the concerning rates of sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) and sexually transmitted infections (STIs) right here in Louisiana and in our neighboring cities. Some of these men are not coming back because they miss you, love you, or suddenly realized your worth. They are coming back because they want access to what they used to have without offering anything different!