There are women like myself that are spending money on self-pleasure essentials rather than headache medicine and condoms these days. We are also not ashamed to say that we have desires and needs that can be met on our own terms. In my early 30s, my self-pleasure collection is expanding at a rate that puts my past dating history to ashes. And you know what? I have zero regrets.

There are many inundated with narratives of steamy encounters, wild escapades, and fiery passion, but there's a quieter, less celebrated reality: the "boring" sex life. For many single women, navigating the realm of intimacy without the thrill of constant novelty can feel like traversing uncharted territory.

Oh, snap ladies! Buckle up, because we're about to embark on a wild journey through the twists and turns of having a high sex drive.

 As we stand on the threshold of a new year, it's natural to contemplate the changes we want to bring into our lives. Among the myriad resolutions, one path less traveled but gaining momentum is the practice of abstinence.

In today's evolving society, women are breaking free from traditional norms and embracing their independence and sexuality. One aspect that has gained attention and sparked various discussions is the concept of one-night stands. 

In today's fast-paced dating landscape, it's crucial to establish healthy boundaries and demand the respect we deserve. Being someone's booty call can be disheartening and leave us feeling used or undervalued. There is so much more to embrace when it comes to your sexual side than just a quick relief with an orgasm.

Sexuality is a dynamic and ever-evolving aspect of our lives, influenced by various factors such as experience, confidence, and personal growth. As we enter our 30s, we often find ourselves more self-assured and attuned to our desires, paving the way for a thrilling exploration of our sexuality. 

This decade can be a golden period to rekindle passion, discover new dimensions of pleasure, and foster deeper connections with our partners. So, let's embark on a journey to explore better sex in our 30s, embracing the beauty of this transformative period.

Self-Awareness: Embracing Your Desires

In your 30s, you are more likely to have a solid understanding of your likes, dislikes, and boundaries. 

Take the time to reflect on your desires, explore your fantasies, and communicate openly with your partner. Embrace your sexual identity and let go of any lingering inhibitions that may have held you back in the past.