What's scarier than Halloween? A man spinning the block just to have sex with a woman he used to deal with! BABY, THAT'S SPOOKY ASF! It is always a good time to look at the concerning rates of sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) and sexually transmitted infections (STIs) right here in Louisiana and in our neighboring cities. Some of these men are not coming back because they miss you, love you, or suddenly realized your worth. They are coming back because they want access to what they used to have without offering anything different! 

Have you ever looked at your phone, seen his name or number because he is no longer a saved contact, and felt yourself get butterflies? You tell yourself that you are not entertaining his bullshit. You remind yourself of the tears. 

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Dating as a single mom is not a sport and many people think they understand until they are living it. From the outside, it can look as if it is “just dating.” However, it comes with schedules, boundaries, childcare, judgment, hope, exhaustion, and sometimes a little bit of excitement that catches you off guard in the best way.

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 I got an email that started with… ‘I secretly got on birth control… am I wrong?

This email made my eyes water, because I know too many women living this exact life in silence.

“Hey Linda, you can share this publicly if you want because I know I’m not the only woman going through this. I’ve been with my boyfriend for 7 years. We have 4 kids together and live in a small two bedroom apartment. We have been here for some years now and I want better for us. 

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Hey, Sha. Let's sit back and talk, 'cause there's somethin' I just gotta share with ya’, somethin' that’s changed my whole peace of mind. I wanted to touch on how I do not argue anymore. Now, do not be thinkin' I am under someone’s control or a cat got my tongue or anything. Lord knows I still have plenty to say. I am not a weak or  scared chick, bless your heart. Nah, the truth is, that it took me some time, but I have learned a valuable lesson about what arguing really is. It is for folks who still think if they just explain it one more time, they will somehow be understood.

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Relationships are a beautiful part of life that can bring joy, support, and fulfillment. However, not all relationships are healthy or nurturing. When toxicity seeps into a partnership, it can emotionally, mentally, and even physically drain us. 

Love can sweep you off your feet! You can get so caught up in wanting to tell your friends and family about your love life. It’s great to want and have someone to confide in about your relationship. Just keep in mind that you don’t have to share all the truth between you and spouse with outsiders. Here are 4 relationship topics to keep private.



It may seem as if it is common sense, however common sense is not so common these days. 

I have found myself having conversations with a lot of ladies who are young and older about how they love a quote-unquote God-fearing man. While there is nothing wrong with desiring a God-fearing man, the issue comes into play when a lot of women realize that man they love finds himself infatuated with your flesh and not your spirit. There is a difference with a man becomes infatuated with the flesh and spirit and allow for me to break it down for you, sis.

Does your man make you feel insecure about yourself? I am here to encourage you and let you know that you do not have to suffer in silence. I truly understand how difficult it may be to reach out and talk to another woman about your current insecurities that are being sparked from your relationship or marriage. As you continue to read this blog post, I am going to give you a few reasons why your man is probably making you feel insecure. Are you ready? Let’s go.

I know that I am not the only girl who really takes a step back and analyzes the things they go through and what they have currently been through! I want to start a new column on my blog called, "Not to Be Petty" before 2017 arrives. Today's blog talk is basically going to give you my reader advice on what to do when your man's ex is following you on social media. So, I just want you to smile and just know that you're doing something hella right to have her attention the way that you already do. 

The yearning want or even need to spice up your marriage in a more intimate way does not have to be daunting or discouraging to try. Pick your head up and know that you do not have to make it complicated nor do you have to over think your approach. Be confident enough to understand that it takes not just you to make a change, but your spouse too. Without any further delay here go 12 ways to spice up your marriage. Take each tip day by day don't rush into them.

What does the word family mean to a man who is still chasing an unfulfilled thrill? Thoughts, explanations, and unanswered questions fill the mind of the woman who once felt wholeness in her relationship is now left to pick up the pieces. I was sent an email from a woman who wanted to share her story with my readers anonymously. Find out how she discovered her inner strength to move forward.

You find yourself falling for this guy a little more than you are comfortable with. You know that the attraction between the both of you is there and that he is feeling you! 

Once you get a chance to have a conversation with him, some things seem a little off about him, but it doesn't stop you from getting to know the real him. Here are 7 warning signs to spot to find out if the guy that you are crushing on is a LAME or not:

You probably want real reasons as to why your new bae really wants to have you around. Hopefully, he isn't using you to get over his ex. If there could be a possibility that he is using you then here go 5 signs:

Let's just say that you are starting to grow feelings for the man that you have really been a friends with benefits for lately. You want to just shake off the love and all the thoughts of you both starting something serious. However, you don't want to deny how you truly feel about him. Here are a few tips and reason that can help you, while you are going through...

He is probably the type that talks a good game and doesn't back it up. Or he probably always wants to have sex and get him and hardly ever worry about you getting an orgasm. I want you to know these five tips before letting him go, because of the sex...