My hair after detangling with conditioner. |
When I
was pregnant I was a low-manipulation natural. All I wore was high puffs and
buns. My wash days were not long or drawn out and I mainly wore wash n gos. I
had very little to average shedding a wash day. I knew that my natural hair was
going to be in for a drastic change after I gave birth.
The
shedding began. 12/30/2017
By the
time I was two months postpartum my edges started to feel like there was a
slight tugging sensation happening. I felt the tugging at my edges even
when I wasn't sporting a puff of bun. I ignored the sensation until the day
before my wash day. I wash my hair once or sometimes twice a week. Plus, on the
day before wash day I pamper my hair.
I give
myself a grand scalp massage and follow it up by oiling my scalp and
the ends of my hair. Detangling my natural hair would be something I would
do too. Being that I was only two months postpartum my natural hair began shedding
the way it did before I my doctor diagnosed me with anemia only one month within my pregnancy.
One thing
I thought that was going to help me combat my postpartum shedding was deep conditioning. Deep conditioning is
the first method every natural
hair guru speaks about doing if you have anything happening to your natural
hair.
“If your hair is dry…” Deep condition
“If your hair is damaged from anything.” Deep condition
“If your ends are breaking…” Deep condition
&
lastly
“If your hair is shedding…” Deep condition
I’m
thankful that I'm not one of
those natural hair YouTubers who constantly say that deep conditioning is
basically one of the core sources of solving your hair issue(s). I
believe that deep conditioning is not going to solve a postpartum shedding
issue. Postpartum starts internally.
If more natural hair gurus and even cosmologists, ask you about your current health or your health in general then real questions can finally have an answer.
If more natural hair gurus and even cosmologists, ask you about your current health or your health in general then real questions can finally have an answer.
Any ways moving along…
I'm now 3
months (16 weeks) postpartum and my hair is shedding even more. Allow me to
remind you that I am Anemic as well. Therefore, my postpartum shedding may be
more dramatic than the next woman's.
I will be dropping a video about my experience with Anemia on my YouTube channel as well, so if you're not a subscriber yet just click here so you won't miss the video that I may turn into a series.
I will be dropping a video about my experience with Anemia on my YouTube channel as well, so if you're not a subscriber yet just click here so you won't miss the video that I may turn into a series.
Here is
my current natural routine for my postpartum shedding.
Monday - Morning: Mist hair
lightly with water or green tea spritz. (Purified water and green tea in spray
bottle)
Night:
Mist hair with water.
Scalp
massage with a light oil.
Tie hair
back up or put on bonnet.
Tuesday - Morning: Mist hair
lightly with water to refresh style.
Moisturized
edges and nape with Nature’s Blessings Pomade or light hair grease fertilizer.
Night:
Mist hair with water.
Scalp
massage with no oil for 10 minutes.
Tie up
hair in satin scarf or bonnet.
Wednesday - Morning: Mist hair
lightly using either water or green tea spritz.
Refresh
style.
Night:
Mist hair with water.
Scalp
massage with light oil for 10 minutes.
Tie up
hair in satin scarf or bonnet.
Thursday - Morning: Mist hair
lightly with water.
Refresh
style.
(If wash
day finger detangle hair in sections before shampooing. Add oil to ends of
natural hair.)
Night:
Tie hair up in satin scarf or bonnet.
Friday - repeat Thursday steps
Saturday
- if wash day prep hair and follow with night routine.
Sunday -
If wash day prep hair and follow with night routine.
Wash day:
Spilt
hair into two or sections.
Shampoo
hair in four sections.
Rinse
hair in lukewarm water in the sink.
Shampoo
hair with either a sulfate or sulfate free shampoo
(depending
on what my hair needs.)
Shampoo
my hair 2 times.
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Condition
my hair with a conditioner that has tons of slip and detangle my hair in
sections. First with fingers then with detangling comb. I also twist my hair up
as I go.
Follow up
with deep conditioner and finger detangling (add oil of choice.) Then twist
hair up and apply shower cap on my head and deep condition with heat either
using my hot head for 25-30 minutes or my bonnet hair dryer.
Rinse my
hair in lukewarm water in the sink and follow up with styling products.
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I truly
know that going through postpartum shedding can affect your self-confidence. I
understand firsthand how much it can also take a toll on how you feel about the
overall health of your hair.
However, there is no stop the shedding quick miracle.
You must
allow your postpartum shedding to run its course (even as nonchalant as it may come off.) Postpartum shedding can
last months, but it doesn't have to
stop you from feeling beautiful.
Deep
conditioning won't stop the shedding from happening it will only keep your hair
more conditioned, soft, and hydrated. I’m also not advocating to stop doing it either, sis.
What has
been your experience with postpartum shedding in your natural hair journey?
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