People have been asking me, “Lynn, will you have your kids this Christmas?” According to the rotation, this was supposed to be their dad’s holiday. However, this year, my kids will be with me. I am not giving into the feeling of the need to explain every detail or defend how it happened. I am choosing to sit with what is and what it will be, which is quiet and we will enjoy the priceless gift of togetherness.
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This year marks three years since my divorce was finalized. Whew! Today, I can finally say, I have officially paid off my divorce lawyer.
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January 2025 came and so did a text message from the ex husband. He demanded to see our kids in a text message one Friday night, randomly. I thought about how many unanswered questions I had for my son and daughter about their father’s where abouts last year. I ended up disappointing myself. Again, Sha!
I have not been feeling like physically speaking to people about my life. Being silent has been comforting. The nights I share alone with God as my kitchen light kisses the vase on my dining room table with shadows on my living room wall. Allowing my mind to rest and tears to fall has been therapeutic. I have not allowed things to overwhelm or control my outlook on myself or my day. I have been feeling more empowered. More mysterious.
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Dating after divorce can be an annoying experience, especially when you're a single mom. As someone who has been through the ups and downs of relationships, you've likely learned what you want and need in a partner. Settling for anything less than a fulfilling connection shouldn't be an option.
When I see the first red flag while dating after divorce; I am running! See ya later. I know; it may seem like a bad thing to do. I have found that having a conversation about what I may label a red flag leads to more misunderstanding or passive-aggressive behavior from the other person from addressing the situation.
Last year during the summertime of 2022, I was in a financial bind while still living with a friend and her family with my two kids. Last year, I paid for a divorce out of pocket with no job, a resume that wasn’t helping me get any work-from-home jobs I applied for, and without a car. I felt helpless.
Hey there, fabulous readers! Divorce can leave us feeling like a crumpled-up romance novel, tossed aside and forgotten. But guess what?
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After seven months post-divorce, I am filled with excitement and growth as I find myself. During this transition, I have been learning more about who I am. This newfound understanding has led to a greater appreciation for life and an openness to explore new paths.
