People have been asking me, “Lynn, will you have your kids this Christmas?” According to the rotation, this was supposed to be their dad’s holiday. However, this year, my kids will be with me. I am not giving into the feeling of  the need to explain every detail or defend how it happened. I am choosing to sit with what is and what it will be, which is quiet and we will enjoy the priceless gift of togetherness.

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This year marks three years since my divorce was finalized. Whew! Today, I can finally say, I have officially paid off my divorce lawyer.

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When I see the first red flag while dating after divorce; I am running! See ya later. I know; it may seem like a bad thing to do. I have found that having a conversation about what I may label a red flag leads to more misunderstanding or passive-aggressive behavior from the other person from addressing the situation.

Hey there, fabulous readers! Divorce can leave us feeling like a crumpled-up romance novel, tossed aside and forgotten. But guess what?

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After seven months post-divorce, I am filled with excitement and growth as I find myself. During this transition, I have been learning more about who I am. This newfound understanding has led to a greater appreciation for life and an openness to explore new paths.

I accept all that comes with growth. I acknowledge all that comes with healing. I am eager to experience all that comes from this decade of my life. This month marks six months since my divorce had finalized. I still remember the day I filed. The emotions I felt and the conversation I had with my lawyer leading up to receiving my divorce decree. There has been so much progress made within this time. 

April 2023

I said I wouldn’t spark the conversation about my newfound singlehood, but baby let’s talk about it!