As we all know it is very common for couples in general to have disagreements. If you are in a relationship or married to your spouse, chances are biting your tongue when you want to have the last word during an argument can be difficult. I can honestly tell you that finding the right words to say don't have to be daunting. Here are 5 thing that you can say to your husband whenever your marriage is going through a storm....

Growing up, I always would get discouraged to ask my mama about my father. I wanted to know where he was, who he was, and why he wasn't around. I was only five years old and filled with curiosity. As a child, I would watch my classmates interact with their fathers during school activities, open house, and field days. I vividly remember staring off into the audience during awards day at my school with a ravishing pain in my heart. Many of my peers had their 'parents'  and family members clapping and cheering for their accomplishments. I would watch many of my peers smile and pose for photos with their parents, while me on the other hand I often times didn't see my own mother at my school functions...

What if today you had the opportunity to gain more or to re-discover the confidence that you knew always lied within you? Would you take the opportunity to transform your life? Or would you allow the opportunity to slip away from you within a blink of an eye? Okay, enough questions. I'm sure you have made the right decision by now. Allow me the chance to give you a little bit of my story, and a few tips to gaining or rediscovering the confidence that you deserve to share with world...

 After only six months after high school, I was under depression. I felt like I wasn't going to amount to anything or be anyone worth looking up to. I was still blessed to say and be the first person from my immediate family to graduate from high school.

 I was nineteen and with no job, no car, or a supportive family. I wanted to go to college and major in mass communications and be the next Uptown Angela on Q93. But once, I realized that my mother didn't have a job nor the education or the finances to place me into college, I had to learn to let go...