Last Valentine’s Day, I was in the early weeks of a situationship unfolding. I thought I had something to toast to, but instead, I was left disappointed. Yeah, I am talking about no gift. No effort. Not even the smallest gesture of appreciation.
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You better not have been sleeping on free resources, sis. If you don’t have a library card or worse, if you have one somewhere collecting dust then this is your sign to put it to use! Having a library card is one of the easiest ways to level up your reading game, expand your mind, and keep your pockets intact.
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January 2025 came and so did a text message from the ex husband. He demanded to see our kids in a text message one Friday night, randomly. I thought about how many unanswered questions I had for my son and daughter about their father’s where abouts last year. I ended up disappointing myself. Again, Sha!
There are women like myself that are spending money on self-pleasure essentials rather than headache medicine and condoms these days. We are also not ashamed to say that we have desires and needs that can be met on our own terms. In my early 30s, my self-pleasure collection is expanding at a rate that puts my past dating history to ashes. And you know what? I have zero regrets.
