On Friday, December 20th,
2013 I said, the words, “I do” to my then fiancĂ©, lover, and best friend in a
court house, justice of the peace style. I was 20 years old and one year out of
high school. I had moved from a small town and was officially living on the
outskirts of New Orleans. I felt refreshed after being in a different area, it gave me a different mind frame. Both me and Bruce were still penny
pinching to make ends meet.
On my blog site, I really want to just be more transparent and
share so many topics that can help other sisters out. I believe if you can name
your top five rappers or even singers, then you can name your top five authors.
Of course, everything takes time. No pressure applied to anyone. I also want to
say that you do not even have to be a black woman to mentally indulge in these
books either. I just feel that it is my calling to also be a voice for those
black girls and women who really need to never stop educating their selves.
I am a very avid reader and I wanted to be
begin my book taste and book reviews with my readers. I believe that reading
books can help you cope with hardships in life and even allow discover your own
inner strength that you possibly never embraced. With this very first list of
books I will provided links, so you can access the books easily. I have read
all five books and I would not recommend anything that I felt someone else
could not benefit from.
When That 9 to 5 Job Just Isn't Cutting It
in advice, hustling, inspiration, job advice, motivational, reality, by Linda B Hurd, September 26, 2017
Have you ever looked at your paycheck from your 9 to 5 job and
wondered, “What in the hell is this?” You have basically busted your ass the
entire pay period with no days off and your paycheck or even direct deposit after
taxes felt like a damn insult. Then reality hits you. You rethink your negative
way of thinking because you know that you have things to take care of and
bills that are due. I can honestly say that I know the feeling. Let me say that
it did not take just a couple of months working a job to make ends meet to make
me realize my passion and my self-worth.
I know firsthand what growing up on government assistance and
even having government assistance in your life to make ends meet. I remember going
to the only grocery store in my parish when I was a child all the way up until
I was a teenager with my mama and auntie to “make groceries.” My mother use to
have two baskets filled with all sorts of food and many of the cashiers who
knew we were poor would laugh at us. Who would have thought that going to a small-town
grocery store to buy groceries could be so damn judgmental?



