This month… sheesh we are only fifteen days in.
It’s been a solid fifteen days of tears, happiness, and
anxiety.
I got laid off. My WFH job that I held down for 2 years is gone.
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This month tested me in ways that had me hurting.
Emotionally. Mentally. Spiritually. Financially.
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It’s late. The kind of lateness where everything feels heavier than it did during the day. The streets not quiet in my hood and neither are my thoughts. I just got out of the shower. That’s the place where I’ve cried the most this month.
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This summer, I made a decision that saved me. I am talking about intentionally saved me in a quiet, refreshing way that no one sometimes feels comfortable enough to talk about. I chose to go outside.
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Life's journey is full of relationships that can make us who we are, push us to our limits, and help us develop. But, let's be honest, not all relationships are worth keeping. Some can turn toxic, sucking the life out of us, making us feel worthless, and messing with our happiness.
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As a divorced mom with two kids, juggling co-parenting and working from home can be like walking on a tightrope. But I've found a secret weapon that helps me stay sane: getting outside when I switch the kids with my ex on our rotating weekends. It's my "me time" ritual, a chance to escape the hustle and bustle of everyday life and just be. Here's why I've made these weekends all about me.
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Getting and going through a divorce are journeys no one can prepare you for. It's a process of disentanglement from a life once shared, a redefining of self, and a reconstruction of one's identity.
Yet, long after the ink dries on the divorce papers, echoes of the past can linger. As well as sometimes manifesting in unexpected ways—like being labeled as "bitter."
One may be surprised to find individuals who seem to resent their happiness. They may downplay your achievements. They scoff at your joy. Some of them even actively seek to undermine your contentment. But why? The answer might lie in their own dissatisfaction and misery.
Waking up in a good mood can set the tone for your day. However, as a woman managing numerous responsibilities, getting 8 hours of sleep every night might seem like a distant dream.
As we bid farewell to the first month of 2024, I have reflected on the valuable lessons that January has brought into my life. Not only did I have a birthday, but I also chose to distance myself and energy this year to mentally and emotionally grow.
A wise woman told me I would never get to where I am going if I kept second-guessing my next step. Today without hesitation I find myself at the intersection of gratitude and self-discovery. This day marks the beginning of my 31st year on this breathtaking journey called life.
It just is not other people’s business and that is fine. When it comes to maintaining an air of mystery around oneself it can be a powerful and empowering choice. For women, who have historically been subjected to societal expectations and judgments, preserving an element of enigma can be a liberating act of self-expression.
Last year, I learned firsthand that the dating world in your 30s, especially after a divorce and as a mother of two, can be both exciting and challenging. This past year has been a journey of self-discovery, independence, and a realization of the values that truly matter in a relationship.
As the New Year dawns upon us, many may reflect on the past and setting intentions for the future. It's a time when resolutions are created. Goals are set. Dreams are envisioned for the year.
Embarking to manifest my first apartment was a profound and transformative experience. Fueled by a combination of scripting, numerology, and unwavering faith in both God and myself, I discovered the incredible power that lies within intentional manifestation.
In a world that frequently champions kindness, empathy, and compassion, it seems counterintuitive that nice girls often find themselves at a disadvantage. The notion that "nice girls finish last" has been a common sentiment, and while it may not always hold true, there are certain situations where genuinely kind-hearted individuals face challenges.
Making the most out of life in your early 30s is a goal many people share. I made 30 this year. One of my biggest goals was to move out of my friend’s family house and obtain an apartment. I knew I was going to be able to create and manifest my goal once I started working a WFH job and was able to manage getting my kids back and forth from school and daycare.
Co-parenting can be a challenging journey within itself. It requires effective communication, cooperation, and a shared commitment to the well-being of your children. However, when you find yourself trying to co-parent with a narcissist, it can become a nightmare of manipulation, control, and emotional turmoil.
Life as a single mom comes with its unique set of challenges. But when you add high-functioning depression to the mix, the struggle can become even more overwhelming. While the world may see an ambitious, capable woman, inside, there's a silent war raging.
Situations in life can take you through several emotions. It's perfectly normal to encounter situations or experiences that trigger strong emotional reactions. These triggers can vary widely, from past traumas to everyday stressors.
