There is a serious problem that you need solving at the moment. In your heart you want things to work, but you know that talking to a man that already has a woman! This guy may have a girlfriend, fiance', or even a damn wife! You find yourself texting and even talking to this guy quite often. It's that time to let his ass go! Here is my advice on what to do with this guy before you get your emotions caught up.

Ladies, it is time to get it together in more than one. I understand that it is difficult to do a lot of things alone, but it's also time to stop making any excuses for yourself. Here are just a few signs that you could possibly be secretly becoming a gold digger and you know it.

A week ago, from today I was frustrated and feeling like I was just going nowhere in life. Even though, I was feeling like shit; I was still smiling. I was still smiling because I knew a change was about to happen.

There was no more need to complain about my part-time job that was often times two days out of the week works pay. There was a feeling of comfort in my soul even though my husband and I were bumping heads over finances.

I started to go to God more and more in prayer. The only person that I had to talk to about my life was my little sister, and I didn't want to burden her with my worry. She had her own issues to cope with like everyone else. I started to think about the things that I had previously asked God for during prayer and it all started to make sense.