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Relationships are a beautiful part of life that can bring joy, support, and fulfillment. However, not all relationships are healthy or nurturing. When toxicity seeps into a partnership, it can emotionally, mentally, and even physically drain us. 



When was the last time you and your spouse had a deep conversation? A deep conversation that did not cut any corners can sometimes be difficult to finish. It’s best that in every relationship that there is room for transparency. Think about how much even a 30-minute, distraction-free, emotional block-busting session once per week can do for your relationship.



Love can sweep you off your feet! You can get so caught up in wanting to tell your friends and family about your love life. It’s great to want and have someone to confide in about your relationship. Just keep in mind that you don’t have to share all the truth between you and spouse with outsiders. Here are 4 relationship topics to keep private.



It may seem as if it is common sense, however common sense is not so common these days. 

I have found myself having conversations with a lot of ladies who are young and older about how they love a quote-unquote God-fearing man. While there is nothing wrong with desiring a God-fearing man, the issue comes into play when a lot of women realize that man they love finds himself infatuated with your flesh and not your spirit. There is a difference with a man becomes infatuated with the flesh and spirit and allow for me to break it down for you, sis.



Does your man make you feel insecure about yourself? I am here to encourage you and let you know that you do not have to suffer in silence. I truly understand how difficult it may be to reach out and talk to another woman about your current insecurities that are being sparked from your relationship or marriage. As you continue to read this blog post, I am going to give you a few reasons why your man is probably making you feel insecure. Are you ready? Let’s go.


First comes friendship, then comes love, and then comes commitment. There are levels of gaining an even deeper level of intimacy with the man that you are in love with. When a guy is ready to take things to the next level with you it is because he does have very strong reasons. Here are six reasons why he is ready to take things to the next level with you.




Being in love is truly one thing, but sticking it through the end is another. Relationships can truly take us to that level cloud nine John Legend once sung about and they can take us to low levels of depression (that’s only if we allow them too.)

When you and your spouse can not seem to see eye to eye it can be difficult to find someone to talk to about what you are facing in your relationship. Not everyone you choose to vent to will understand your point of view on your spouse or why you are still trying to find a resolution to stick it through. 


I know that I am not the only girl who really takes a step back and analyzes the things they go through and what they have currently been through! I want to start a new column on my blog called, "Not to Be Petty" before 2017 arrives. Today's blog talk is basically going to give you my reader advice on what to do when your man's ex is following you on social media. So, I just want you to smile and just know that you're doing something hella right to have her attention the way that you already do. 



There is no need to feel like you have no plans made to spend quality time with your man! Of course, you don’t want to over plan the time that you have with him and you want to make it special. Here are a few ways to have a few things already planned for those holidays with your love! 



Finding a dude that’s worth your damn time does not have to be a headache. The problem is that once you seek out a great guy with the qualities to match most times, some things go unnoticed. Getting caught up in the moment or like Anita Baker sings about, “Being caught up in the Rapture of Love” can sometimes sneak up on you.

 However, what happens when you meet a guy who only wants to conversant, chill, or text you whenever he gets ready? Basically, you are only an option for him when it is convenient for him. There is no longer the kissy face and heart eyed emoji’s being shared. He no longer seems to truly care what you up to. Here goes my advice on what to do and what needs to be done. 

It is difficult to be in a relationship with a man who doesn't see anything wrong with his woman struggling to maintain a household alone. I can only imagine how stressful it is to feel like you are doing everything by yourself and he is just there watching. Here go my advice and tips on what to do when your man can't keep a job and he doesn't want to work. 

Letting your spouse know how much you love and appreciate him can truly not only uplift his spirit, but yours too! It can be truly surprising how much your spouse will feel special for being acknowledge. Here are 5 powerful phrases to speak or even text to your spouse to enlighten him.


What does the word family mean to a man who is still chasing an unfulfilled thrill? Thoughts, explanations, and unanswered questions fill the mind of the woman who once felt wholeness in her relationship is now left to pick up the pieces. I was sent an email from a woman who wanted to share her story with my readers anonymously. Find out how she discovered her inner strength to move forward.

You find yourself falling for this guy a little more than you are comfortable with. You know that the attraction between the both of you is there and that he is feeling you! 

Once you get a chance to have a conversation with him, some things seem a little off about him, but it doesn't stop you from getting to know the real him. Here are 7 warning signs to spot to find out if the guy that you are crushing on is a LAME or not:


You probably want real reasons as to why your new bae really wants to have you around. Hopefully, he isn't using you to get over his ex. If there could be a possibility that he is using you then here go 5 signs:




The love that you and your boyfriend or fiance once had has ran it's course. You are ready to just move on and to just put the past behind you. The chapter that was still be written in the book of y'all relationship has now ended, however the relationship with his mother still seems to be clinging on. Ending things with him and his mother can have you at cross roads. Here are a few reasons why she still wants you around and in her life....

My days have came to an end for working for a very popular and well-known gas station that's located in the south. I spent over one year and seven months working at a gas station, and it was indeed a very humbling expereince. On July 10th, 2016 I retired my work gear forever. Working at a gas station has changed my perception in so many ways about life and my health. Here goes just seven things that I have learned from working at a gas station. 

Ladies, it is time to get it together in more than one. I understand that it is difficult to do a lot of things alone, but it's also time to stop making any excuses for yourself. Here are just a few signs that you could possibly be secretly becoming a gold digger and you know it.

He took your love and your time for granted. The relationship is said and done. Time has healed your heart, and love songs have helped ease your pain. But, now all of a sudden, while you're in the midst of getting your life together, he is trying to find himself back into your life, bed, and between your legs. Here go my eight signs that your ex is going to come running back to you... 

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Girl, slow your roll because honestly becoming obsessed with any guy too damn fast is not a good thing. Women are more prone to getting 'sprung' over guys in a short amount of time. It's cute to admire how handsome, hardworking, and even funny a guy is, but don't let it keep you hypnotized. 

You sure don't want to be the one feeling played after he tells you that isn't feeling you the same way. Here are eight ways to stop becoming so obsessed with him and to slow the process down: 
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