Ladies, it is time to get it together in more than one. I understand that it is difficult to do a lot of things alone, but it's also time to stop making any excuses for yourself. Here are just a few signs that you could possibly be secretly becoming a gold digger and you know it.

A week ago, from today I was frustrated and feeling like I was just going nowhere in life. Even though, I was feeling like shit; I was still smiling. I was still smiling because I knew a change was about to happen.

There was no more need to complain about my part-time job that was often times two days out of the week works pay. There was a feeling of comfort in my soul even though my husband and I were bumping heads over finances.

I started to go to God more and more in prayer. The only person that I had to talk to about my life was my little sister, and I didn't want to burden her with my worry. She had her own issues to cope with like everyone else. I started to think about the things that I had previously asked God for during prayer and it all started to make sense.

You might be ready to take things to the next level, but he is the reason why the process is slowing down. He doesn't seem as interested as you are about being in a relationship with you as he may have once portrayed to be. You want someone who is serious enough and respects you enough to keep it real with you. Here are 8 signs that he just may be too immature for a relationship...